Beginner Dildo
A beginner dildo is decidedly smaller than an advanced dildo, easy to manipulate and has a more tame curve for the inhabitation process.
With regards to the choice of beginner’s options one should think of seating as comfortable as possible, large enough, made of material to provide a smooth surface and has a simple design.
Yes, a water based lubricant is suggested to be used on the penis so as to avoid any friction that might be painful to the lady.
Yes, but make it flare out at the bottom, so it will not tip over easily and cause an accident. Choose one that is meant for usage in the anal region to start with.
Before and after play with the toy, it should be washed, using a mild soap and warm water, or a toy cleaner and should be allowed to drain well.